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What to Expect at the Fairfax County Courthouse for Your Family Law Case


For many people, the thought of going to court is intimidating. The unfamiliar environment, formal procedures, and the gravity of the situation can cause significant anxiety. If you have a family law case in Fairfax, Virginia, understanding what to expect at the Fairfax County Courthouse can help demystify the process and allow you to focus on what truly matters: the outcome of your case.

This guide provides a practical overview of navigating the courthouse for your divorce, custody, or support hearing.

Before You Go: Preparation is Key

Your attorney will handle the legal preparations, but there are several things you can do to ensure your day in court goes as smoothly as possible.

  • Discuss the Plan with Your Attorney: The day before your hearing, have a final conversation with your lawyer. Confirm the time and place to meet, review the key points of your testimony, and ask any last-minute questions.
  • Dress Appropriately: Treat your court appearance as you would a formal job interview. Business attire is expected. For men, this means a suit or dress pants with a button-down shirt and tie. For women, a conservative dress, suit, or blouse and skirt/slacks is appropriate. Avoid casual clothing like jeans, t-shirts, shorts, and flip-flops.
  • Gather Your Documents: While your attorney will have the official case file, it can be helpful to bring your own copy of any documents you may need to reference, such as financial statements or a proposed parenting plan.

Navigating the Fairfax County Courthouse

The Fairfax County Courthouse is located at 4110 Chain Bridge Road, Fairfax, VA 22030. It is a large and busy complex, so give yourself plenty of extra time.

Parking and Arrival

Public parking is available in several garages surrounding the courthouse. Be prepared to pay for parking. It is wise to arrive at least 30-45 minutes before your scheduled hearing time to account for parking, security screening, and finding your courtroom.

Security Screening

Upon entering the courthouse, you will go through a security checkpoint similar to an airport. You will need to place your belongings, including bags, phones, and any metal objects, on a conveyor belt to be x-rayed. You will walk through a metal detector. Prohibited items include weapons of any kind, sharp objects, and outside food and drink (water is usually permitted).

Finding Your Courtroom

Family law cases, which are part of the Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court (J&DR Court), are typically heard on the upper floors of the courthouse. Your hearing notice will specify the courtroom number. You can also check the electronic dockets (TV screens) in the lobby, which list the cases for the day and their assigned courtrooms.

Inside the Courtroom: Etiquette and Procedure

Once you find your courtroom, you will likely wait in the hallway until your attorney arrives or the courtroom opens. When you enter, the atmosphere is formal and quiet.

•Addressing the Judge: Always address the judge as “Your Honor.” Stand up when the judge enters or leaves the room and when you are speaking to the judge.

•Courtroom Conduct: All cell phones and electronic devices must be turned off or silenced. There is no eating, drinking, or chewing gum allowed. Remain quiet and respectful at all times, even if you disagree with something that is said. Your attorney will have the opportunity to respond at the appropriate time.

•The Hearing Process: When your case is called, you and your attorney will move to the tables at the front of the courtroom. The person who filed the motion (the petitioner or plaintiff) will present their case first, which may involve testimony and presenting evidence. The other party (the respondent or defendant) will then have a chance to do the same. Your attorney will guide you through this process, telling you when to speak, when to stand, and how to answer questions.

The Role of Your Attorney

Throughout this process, your attorney is your guide and your advocate. They will handle all legal arguments, object to improper questions or evidence, and present your case in the most effective way possible. Your role is to provide truthful testimony and remain calm and composed. Trust in your attorney’s expertise and follow their instructions closely.

Don’t Face the Fairfax Courthouse Alone

Navigating the legal system can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it by yourself. The experienced attorneys at Raheen Family Law are familiar with the Fairfax County Courthouse and its procedures. We will stand by your side every step of the way, ensuring your rights are protected and your voice is heard.

If you have an upcoming hearing or need to discuss your family law matter, contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation. Let our experience be your advantage.